T W Jackson makes some very good observations about the things you shouldn’t do when you get dumped in The Magic Of Making Up.
In fact, while many people spurned feel they have the right to express their distaste at getting axed from a relationship many fail to realize that by doing this they are really jeopardizing their chances of getting back with their ex when the dust settles and everyone’s had time to reflect on their actions.
This also goes for your ex who has made a major decision which not only alters the course of your life, but theirs as well.
Now whether they’ve made the decision in haste, through bad advice or simply from the result of your past indiscretions, is problematical but acting in a crazy and ugly fashion is not going to get you a favorable decision when your ex finally gets the jury decision about whether to sever ties with you completely or give you another chance.
Hopefully you didn’t destroy any hope of a reconciliation by letting your emotions control you and make a big scene? Big mistake, especially if you intend on getting your ex back!
T W Jackson And The Magic Of Making Up
T W Jackson may have ruffled a few traditional opinions about the best way of coping with a relationship break up in The Magic Of Making Up but you’ve got to hand it to him; in a short space of time, about 7000 people have used his techniques to find their way back into their former relationships.
1. Don’t stay and argue with your ex. Avoid the temptation to massage your ego just to get the last word in because if you want to be back, then this will just about severe the umbilical chord holding the relationship together completely.
2. Avoid phoning your ex continually. This, like arguing, is simply going to antagonize him/her and besides, what’s the point when your calls probably won’t be answered anyway.
3. Don’t be tempted to follow up a call with a text message or an email if you don’t get a response.
4. Definitely avoid the temptation to talk to their family and friends and try and get them to change your ex’s mind.
5. Don’t try and win the sympathy vote. It rarely works. That is, telling your ex you are falling to pieces without them or trying to convince their friends of this and hoping they’ll report this to your ex. It’s unattractive and ugly behavior and the truth is, it doesn’t work.
6. Finally, you’re going to be tempted to turn up where your ex hangs out. Resist this according to The Magic Of Making Up. Jackson explains why and provides you with the blueprint to action and start on the correct path to get your ex back.